Hi alba
I'm a new driver, passed last year. But I still remember what my
instructor told me. And till today, I do that whenever I change
lane.
Check rear and wing mirrors. Signal. Then check rear mirror, check
wing mirror again. If the car (which you wish to cut into its path)
can be seen on your rear mirror (at least 1/4 of rear mirror -
actually, I think as long as it can be seen), it means the car is
behind yours, check wing mirror again, check blind spot. Then lane
change smoothly (at the right speed accordingly).
You need to do all these very fast.
If you're afraid, just make sure the car (which you wish to cut
into its path) can be seen fully on the rear mirror. That means a
very clear path.
Lane changing has always been my greatest fear too but I am no
longer afraid. But one of my instructors at Ubi would always take
me along Eunos Link to practise over and over again. I give him the
credit for taking me along the busy Eunos Link during peak hours to
help me overcome my fear. Not all instructors are willing to do
that because the risk is of course higher. Sometimes they make us
practise on easier routes which iseasier for them.
But keep in mind safety always. Do lane change only when you are
sure. Once you're certain don't hesitate. It's worse when you
hesitate. It can be extremely dangerous in fact.
I hope you overcome your fear soon.
By the way, when I passed. What I did was: I stopped at my carpark
with parked cars behind. Looked into the rear mirror. See if I
could see a car. Then turned my head and looked back to help me
uderstand/realise how far the car was away from mine. I stopped at
various distances (car on rear mirror of different sizes) etc. That
really helped me to estimate distances of cars behind me. It helped
me a great in my lane changing a lot. But of course, my carpark is
a private carpark and so the traffic is controlled so it was not
dangerous to do that. If you wish to do that in public carparks, do
be very careful.
Learning to drive is fun. But driving is a heavy responsibility. I
am responsible not only for my own safety but for my passengers'
safety AND the safety of all other road users.
Enjoy driving!