Guys ar Guys

last SG · 2002-10-28T11:12:45+00:00

True..but gals are creatures that can be jealous easily? Anway if the guy compares it one or two times..maybe still acceptable..what is the guy keeps compari...

Hershey SG

Why is it when they are in the wrong, they sometimes refuse to apologise adn even saythat it is the womens’ fault??

Xiao Long Nu SG

gt meh??? nt realy lar..some guys dn do tat

zzzzland SG

It all depends on his character or upbringing...
usu for guys, they dun admit their mistake (esp, when it is in the public wif his gerger & other frens)..
perhaps it is MCP or male ego issue lor...
Rolling Eyes

Hershey SG

Yeah lar...the EGO thingy again...sighzzzz....MCP and EGO so big meh?? Sometimes just don't really understand lor....so BM....are you also very MCP??? Razz Razz

CloneMe72 SG

To be a guy to trash on another guy... hmmm...

However on the fair side, it has to something to do with the testosterone found in the male of the species.

Failure to admit to one's mistakes has nothing to do with sex.
It is just being stuborn.

Hershey SG

Okie...so its is guys to be like that since its found in the testosterone....hmm.....sounds like an excuse o meyou know?? Twisted Evil

Anyway on the failing to admit mistake is due to stuborness....that one i can agree on it...

MadGoat SG

Laughing Hehehe...Life is just one short period....Who is wrong who is rite dun need to be so calculative one lah...Most impt just be objective, dun just say tat you are guy must apologise 1st.....Sometimes even when the guy is willing to eat the humble pie and apologise liao, the ger still feel not happy...so like that whose fault issit? The guy for making the mistake or the ger for being so unforgiving??? That's y life is such a short period of time, not pt pointing fingers at each other. It takes just one min to get angree, but a long time to forget....so if you can just left go of that one min....you save a long time of suffering.... Smile

Life is short, play hard, work hard, and do what you want.....Eventually it's yourself....

CloneMe72 SG

Inject yourself with the hormones and you willl think like us guys... it's mother nature's fault.

Originally posted by Hershey:
Okie...so its is guys to be like that since its found in the testosterone....hmm.....sounds like an excuse o me you know?
Anyway on the failing to admit mistake is due to stuborness....that one i can agree on it...

xiaoliang SG

there are sensitive guys out there....
just that you havent met one thats all....

Devil1976 SG

I thought that's more applicable to girls...? Laughing

Hershey SG

Inject myself with male hormones....hmmm..okie why not like that...i inject myself with male hormones and you with female hormones..then you know how bad it can get when you have to have monthly sickness, PMS and stuff..... Razz Razz Razz Razz Razz Razz Razz

Hershey SG

Nah....nowadays...more applicable to guys.... Rolling Eyes

annna SG

i have a guy fren that apologises to his girlfren no matter whose wrong or right. he say very sick of his girlfren becoming angry then not happy show face so he say jus say sorry then everything will be fine.. haiz then he will become unhappy because he always have to give in... n his girlfren taking him for granted at times. haiz Evil or Very Mad

nick34 SG

Guys and Gers got their fair share of been stubborn … just that they are in different ways …

Hershey SG

True true...maybe its all boils down to the person.

Hershey SG

Talking about guys....sometimes my guy wants me to change certain behaviour or things cause he feels it will be good for me or i will look good in it...so gals, do your guys often do this to you? Guys, is it true that often you would want to mould your partner to be someone you prefer her to be or aceept whoever she is??

Mr_July SG

I think there is a difference between 'suggesting' and 'insisting'. If your guy INSIST, then got problem lah. if the guy 'suggest' and u refuse to take suggestion and he gets angry, thats equilvalent to INSIST too Laughing

Anyways, there is a chinese saying that says "Nan Wei Zhi Ji Ze Si, Nu Wei Zhi Ji Ze Rong" meaning 'man will die for person, who understand him; AND woman will beautify for the person who makes her happy'

SO~ man, go make your girlfriend happy, she will look pretty for you .. hehehehehe

AND~ woman, go understand your man, and he will do anything for you!!

Cheers~~

CloneMe72 SG

Advise from a wise and married man.

-=[ChEeZe]=- SG

i think in an arguement there is no right or wrong..
diff ppl have diff point of view..
so if both stubborn like me and my gf... fight for 2 yrs still cannot solve...
its not a matter of who's fault it is or who should apologise... but who is more mature enough to save the situation..
btw saying sorry doesn't really have to mean that i'm at fault..
Mr. Green
Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink

Hershey SG

agree with you that saying sorry does not mean that you are at fault...but if everytime a problem happens, you keep saying sorry, it will not solve it rite? What is most important is to solve the problem and not brush it off just by saying sorry because you do not want any arguments.