Would You Relly Forgive and Forget the Person Who Hurt You B

Hershey SG

Well in life i am sure there are people who hurt you before...do you really forgave the person and forget about it?

Well, I can forgive the person...but i can never forget the person who hurt me....this is very human i guess...agree?

zzzzland SG

Blaming and feeling guilty are equally dangerous + destructive. It is up to us if we get on wif our life and live in the now, or whether we chain ourselves to grudges and upsets of the past!

^3rdWatch SG

Unforgiving dark side it is...
Unforgeting learnt lesson...
Wise is one who forgives...
Foolish is one who forgets...
Live and let live...
flow shall the force.
~CloneDa~

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~CloneMe~
It won't rain all the time.
The sky won't fall forever.
And though the night seems long,
your tears won't fall forever.

Joylet SG

U STILL think you are CloneDa?!

oh well, ever heard people say? if forgive but not forget means not truely forgive?

Anyway, IF you're talking about hurting VERY deeply ... I won't FORGIVE ... neither will I FORGET.

^3rdWatch SG

Think not doing...
Do not thinking...
Matter not, it does.
~Joyda~

mahjong SG

forget i always...
forgive i learning..
adventage of being forgetful

jAnY SG

forgive n forget?
how to forget someone who had hurt you so deeply before?
forgive? mebbe.... but not totally
but there will always be a "Ying3 Ying4" after that incident...
I dun think i can TRUST that person anymore

sensen SG

i will forgive him but will never forget the way he treats mi. But one thing can be sure is that the relation wil not be as close as there wil always be a shadow in your mind that how the person treats u

Joylet SG

agree with sen sen ...

the "shadow" will always be there ...
a relationship will not be as "wonderful" as before ....

been thru' it ... no matter how hard you try .. there's still this fear that the person who hurt u, will do the same thing .. somehow ...

Hershey SG

Totally agree with Joy and jany…Like a piece of mirror, once its broken, even you try to stick it back there are still crack marks…I will not 100% trust the person anymore, in fact I will have the thinking he might do it again…..

jAnY SG

nodz nodz
agree with u gers...
Gers Power!

^3rdWatch SG

Chick Power~!

sensen SG

since he /she about to hurt u once, he/she can hurt u once more

i will not get so close again to the person.
Cox the memory wil keep remind u
unless u have a big heart lah and also a forgetfull mind

Xavier SG

Love is Blind.. one might be hurt before.. but sometimes.. they will still carry hopes.. and also bring themselves to forgive..

mahjong SG

sometime ppl fan jian
like to be hurt
hahahhahaa
as long as himself/herself happy can liao

gUms SG

hmPPpPp......

there is something really wrong wif me

if someone hurt me i will be very angry but within 1 hr or a 1 day or few days , i will talk to de person n forget wat happen , dont know why i am like dat , i just cant hold a vengence against someone

^3rdWatch SG

Nuthing wrong with you.
You have a big heart and
"Live and let live." Very Happy

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~CloneMe~
It won't rain all the time.
The sky won't fall forever.
And though the night seems long,
your tears won't fall forever.