Having a baby without being married - Abortion?

Joylet SG

Guys: Would you ask your gal to go for abortion? OR Would you take the responsiblity and marry her?

Gals: Would you go for abortion if you're not married ? OR when your guy ask you to?

Hershey SG

Well this is definately a no no…i mean hey…u should be responsibe for your own actions. Since a life is created, don’t you think you should give it a chance to live no matter what??

sotongs SG

If this question was asked maybe 5yrs back, I might not be able to answer you. But 5 yrs now, the answer is a definitely YES. I will be responsible for what I had done.

I remember I read about an article which is very touch that is send around through e-mail by people. This writer imagine a baby who is inside a mother's womb. And this mother was going for an abortion.
The baby was talking about the abortion process, and how the mother actually feel and how himself feel. If you read it with some thought, tears will soon flow to your eyes.

"Jokes Corner"

"Joylet nan dao ni you le ?" hee..
Who is the one responsible ?? kekekeke..
{Oops Mad better go take cover liao) Very Happy

^3rdWatch SG

Sotong ah... the video is produced to advise unmarried couple to consider getting married instead of abortion.

Only guys who are not serious with their gf are the ones who are pro-abortion.

But think carefully before you ask your gf to abort, the procedure is not without danger.

But think about the resposibilites of being parents, it is not child's play.

Married couple consider abortion because if they are unable to bring the child up, might as well abort it.

Many reasons, one outcome.

I am pro-life.

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gUms SG

yeah if i SHOTGUN my gf n make her pregnant i would COMFIRM marry her , cos i belive every man must be responsible for wat ever he does , so i will marry her , n keep de baby . n also i am always against ppl who go fo abortion , too me a person who ask his gf to go for abortion is a acomplice of a murder n de person who just aborted her baby is a murderer , BABies are so cute kuchee ku chee kuku hehe , they are so cute n so young n so innocent n a long way infront of them , n they yet to see de world ,i dont understand why would couples wan to kill them

Hershey SG

Hey Guys...what you said is easier said than done...sure you will not ask your gf to abort if really she is pregnant? Would you be sure to marry her? Alot of guys also said that but in the end when it does happens, they choose to run away....

^3rdWatch SG

We are talking about fetus not baby.

Currently the fetus is not recognised at a sanction being.

If it is, our date of birth will be the day your parents successfully conceived you.

The above is just biologically speaking.
Morally is it still killing an unborn life.

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It can't rain all the time.

Xavier SG

You will have my answer... IF i happen to get into the situation Razz

mahjong SG

do i need to answer??

P.S not P.M.S
i am a responsible guy

Xavier SG

An abortion is terrible.. if u ever have seen the documentary.. its harmful to the body.. cruel to the foetus.. which would come out in pieces.. they actually vacumn the foetus from the mother’s body.. if too old (too big to go thru), they will have cutters to cutter it into smaller pieces then have it sucked out in a similar manner.. those who seen the results would think twice to do it..

Joylet SG

Then how about keeping the baby ... have we thought of how to handle the situation?

If scarly the guy doesn't marry the girl ...
or the girl was being raped ... hmm ...
if she carries the child "out of marriage" .. think of the shame and pain she has to go thru'? The guy doesn't have to suffer such things ... the girl and her family have to.

And when baby is born, no daddy.. how?

(",* Men are from earth. Women are from earth. Deal with it.

jAnY SG

Although abortion is unethical, I agree with wat Joylett said.

Normally, it is the mother who will have to bear all the shame, pain and suffering if the child is consumate out of wedlock.

Wat if the parents cannot raise or provide the child to grow up a good environment?
Why bring a child to this world to suffer?

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*Happiness is enjoying what you have, not seeking what you don't.*

Hershey SG

That is why in order to prevent such things happening...dun have sex until you are married. For those who are married, they must be prepared to have kids...if not...use protection lor!! Smile

Michiko22 SG

Nowadays the people very opened minded ritez?? IF not wer does the ONScomes from??kekek If you are a person who alwaz ONS, then if one day get pregnent, who to blame? Anyway i alwaz believe gals should not give in so easily unless they are married, if not, who will appreciate the Previous V ritez.?? Guys alwaz does it with their gf, but when they get married, they aso hope that their wife aso a V ritez.?? Pregnant or not, i think it will be based on proper family planning manz…if not makiam like the malays n indians..they alwaz get married early n have lotsa kids..in the end they still cun handle themselves properly..so sadzz siaz…

mahjong SG

aiya V no V not important la.
H more important.....
hey not HIV la
its happiness.

Hershey SG

Correct as both are mature adults and willing parties..both must be able to take responsiblity if anything happen lor…never take a life unncessarily unless really no choice.