I am able to cook, but I would expect a 50-50 spilt of
housework. If he doesn't even help out his mum who he has
been with for more than 15 years, what will happen after we got
married?
You might think I am thinking too far, but to me a relationship
is not a game. I have to make sure that I can at least get along
with that guy for the rest of my life.
Indeed, you are mature and sensible at your young age.
Some adults don't even have your maturity and sensibility.
Commandable.
No hurry, gal, take your time. Don't hurry love. It
has got to be "tian, shi, dili, ren he." All the best in your
search.