yes but so? I do not think that it's a shame.
even marriage is hard.... looking at the choices. singapore's
overpopulated anyway.
parenthood is the sort of thing you appreciate only if you have,
not because it's awesome. it's a phase of life.
it's nothing if it doesn't happen.
Of cors. You cannot miss what you never had.
Marriage and child raising is a lot of work. But it's also very
rewarding.
Marriage + Children + effort = rewards
No marriage + No children = no effort + no rewards
Marriage + Children + NO efforts = no rewards
The equation is very simple. You actually get to choose what
kind of outcome.
Those who doesn't want a family.. shouldn't start one.. because
they will NOT put in effort and they also won't appreciate what
they get out of it.
