if you wish to forever stay in this rock and never leave the
country, this kind of frog-in-well attitude is fine. however if you
go aboard you will soon fine that whatever prejudice the chinese
recieve, you will recieve the same amount regardless of your
background.
Chinese has always face prejudice during the colonial
era, The Japanese target us all the same when they took Singapore,
they ain't going to ask you if you are born in China, if you look
the part you will be profiled and that attitude has not change
because they really can't tell the difference, so we are forever
link to the fate of Chinese. This I learn it the hard way traveling
the world, they don't even understand Singapore is a different
country.
You think a Singapore Malay traveling in the US won't have eyes
look at them at the airport? they ain't Arab but Malay too are
affected by prejudice against their culture group and that is the
real reality of the world.
If we want our children to be able to stand proudly in the
international stage, we have to support our own culture to end the
prejudice against us. of course people from different city will
have different social norm, even between people living in
Shanghai and Suzhou. Every city on the planet has a different beat,
however that is just a drop in the bucket of similarity and
differences.
forgot to say
that the experience and identification is not mine but a quotation
on the internet...but it does reveal how a Singaporean with Chinese
root identifies himself with though it may not the usual case...i
post it here just to ask other opinions as it is probably
the dilemma about identity of other Singaporean related to Chinese
origin...
I really agree with your "support our own culture to end the
prejudice against us"...but what is "our culture" in Singapore, the
mixed culture with Malay culture, British culture and Chinese
culture or just Chinese culture?