Relationships Retreat

CloneMe72 SG

Let's talk about relationships,
it's ups and downs,
it's pros and cons,
Ask your questions, share your views.

Xavier SG

I have but 1 short relationship.. not much to share..not much of an experience for you guys and gals..unless you still interested

Xavier SG

Strange is Human relations – between friends and the sort.. seems length of knowing don’t matter.. its the feeling.. like you won’t discuss personal things with even a long-term friend and rather someone thats been your friend for less than 1 or 2 years..

CloneMe72 SG

Length of a friendship only counts if between friends there is a shared connection, a kin-ship, like Wu Xia movies… sworn brothers…

MadGoat SG

When time to let go, jsut let go and things will be sweeter...
Friendship and r/s is jsut like the strings of a guitar, too tight they will snap, too lose u can't get the correct tune. Must be jsut nice
Also like the sand in ur hand, the harder u try to hold, the more they fall...

Joylet SG

when we went thru' a failed relationship, we tell ourselves that I'm not gonna make the same "mistake" in the next 1. but when the next 1 comes along, we spent so much time trying to "correct that mistake" and neglect other matters which are also as important in a relatship.

a "formula" does not work on ALL relationships. we are individuals ... own set of thinking/beliefs ... own way of handling things ...

Smile

You will never know true happiness
until you have truly loved,
and you will never understand
what pain really is
until you have lost it.
~ by Anonymous ~

mahjong SG

relationship is like war.
both must fight side by side.
if 1 retreat... u are letting your buddy down who trusted u with his/her life.
win the battle together or lose our live together.
NEVER retreat.. no surrender.

BlueSky78 SG

does that goes to say that if one dies, the other will follow as well? maybe in the past... but in this modern society, i don't think so. the important point is there got to be HAPPINESS and LOVE in a relationship and these are the factors that makes a relationship last. if you truly love that special one that make your life so wonderful, you would want all the HAPPINESS and LOVE showering on her/him isn't it? that's wat i think.

mahjong SG

ya no need to die together
but fight together, becoz the war still carried on even after 1 death.
fight the rumours.
fight misunderstanding
improve communication
improve understaning
Razz

IceIcE SG

but it is sad some ppl experience serious heartbreak and from then on they wont dare to try and keep themself from it...which is sad... Smile

Hershey SG

Well i agree with IceIce….acutally this is very human…once bitten, twice shy. Afraid to be hurt again. But hey, if the person refse to take the plunge, how will they know if they are going to be hurt or not. There is a risk in everything we do, just whether the risk is worth it or not

Xavier SG

A man asked his wife what she'd like for her 40th birthday.

"I'd love to be six again," she replied.

On the morning of her birthday, he got her up bright and early and off
they went to a local theme park. What a day! He put her on every ride in
the park: the Death Slide, the Screaming Loop, the Wall of Fear,
everything there was! Wow!

Five hours later she staggered out of the theme park, her head reeling
and her stomach upside down.
Right to a McDonald's they went, where her husband ordered her a Happy
Meal along with extra fries and a refreshing chocolate shake.

Then, it was off to a movie - the latest Disney and what a fabulous
adventure!

Finally, she wobbled home with her husband and collapsed into bed. He
leaned over and lovingly asked, "Well, dear, what was it like being six
again?"

One eye opened. "You idiot, I meant my dress size."

The moral of this story is: When a woman speaks and a man i! s actually
listening, he will still get it wrong. So he shouldn't bother
listenening in the first place.

jAnY SG

haiz....
sometimes hor man will say :"If u dun tell me how i noe wat u wan?"
den when the woman speaks, the man heard wat she said but never listen
den hor the man ask her the same question again... den the woman angwee dun wan to say liao den kanna from the man again :"If u dun tell me how i noe wat u wan?"

so lidat is to say leh or dun say leh?
dilemma.... haiz.... Rolling Eyes

CloneMe72 SG

Speak clearly and leave nothing to doubt.

jAnY SG

play so many times liao oso sianz liao
like a broken record liao

IceIcE SG

Rubbish if he listen with his heart he will get it...if he dont get it that means they dont understand each other at all thats why will misunderstand..

when a couple are together for a long time...sometimes certain things dont have to say it out also will understand what he/she is thinking. Smile

if they dont that means something is really wrong in a relationship.

Hershey SG

[color=blue]correct when a couple being together for a long time, they sometimes know what each other wants...but like for me, I and my guy thinks what each other wants and hence it becomes taking it for granted. For instance, I love to drink ice-lemon tea. My guy will take it for granted that everytime i order a drink, it will be ice-lemon tea. Hence you got to let the person know what you want or else we just take things for granted. Humans i guess Smile

CloneMe72 SG

The only constant in life is... death.
The only fact in life is... it goes on until death.
What won't kill you only makes you stronger.

When a relationship ends, don't ask why it ended, what you should have done and how you should have done it, just ask when you are going to pick yourself up and move on, then where shall you seek your new love.
Mr. Green

MadGoat SG

Originally posted by CloneMe72:
The only constant in life is... death.
The only fact in life is... it goes on until death.
What won't kill you only makes you stronger.

When a relationship ends, don't ask [b]why it ended, what you should have done and how you should have done it, just ask when you are going to pick yourself up and move on, then where shall you seek your new love.
Mr. Green [/b]

Life is an ever changing process....not onli death is the ultimate stop pt...the every truthful process of changing is there...like for example even a family member that you are seeing everydae is changing bit by bit..jsut that the changes is small bit by bit we don't notice...but if you haven seen someoen for long long time..in ur mind u conjure up a impression of what he is based on ur current thinking..but eventually when you meet up you will see the fact that he/she does changes...
like from the book who moved my cheese...
Anitcipate and see the changes early..and you learn to accept and understand it..that would make a better out of the r/s...
be it just buddies/friends/couples...

The onli non changing truth is the truth of changing....

CloneMe72 SG

When in a relationship, always be truth to yourself and your partner… or else it will be just a show which will ended when the excitement ends.