About Plationic Friendships

last SG · 2008-11-09T22:22:17+00:00

For instance, do you go on one to one dates?i believe, and i do it.nothing wrong lo.

BadzMaro SG

As if they will know. unless u so blatantly try to drug them or make them drunk n making ur move when they are in an intoxicated level etc...

Friends yes , i am just saying overtime. Keep hanging around overtime one of them gonna make a move, you realise , u start to distance yourself. So you meet new girl friends , then minimum contact , then becomes frequent , the cycle repeats itself.

Well, i dun think i have any female friends since the primary school days that still hang around. Even i met my old secondary friend, met up.. overtime starts to fall in love. Fuck!

Anyways , yeah. Yes. there are so many ways to work around 'problems' .

So i guess it aint so simply for me afterall.

kopiosatu SG

hello

platonic relationship, why are u falling for them?

just think of that girl as a guy. that is as platonic as it can get.

u meet new guy friends, u gonna pang seh your other guy friend?

BadzMaro SG

mmm.. by discussing more deeply may mean one think too much. By NOT thinking about it at all seems..simple a solution.

I wonder where is the middleground in this. hahaha

BadzMaro SG

but a girl is not a guy. lol..

Imagine a girl thinks of you as a girl. damn.. hahahha

sorry.. that came in funny in my head.

kopiosatu SG

it is platonic

don't think about "i may fall in love with them in future"

if u start thinking that way, it will never be platonic

easiest way u can "con" yourself is to treat the girl like u would treat a guy.

things i make exceptions for her as a girl are :

i don't spew vulgarities, i don't talk about football, i don't crack dirty jokes

kopiosatu SG

then u will never be in a platonic relationship if u are unable to place the girl in your guy circle.

Master -_- SG

Platonic Relationships and Love Relationships are mutually exclusive..what's so difficult about that?

kopiosatu SG

the difficulty is that people use platonic to jump to love

which makes it not even platonic in the first place

Master -_- SG

then it defeats the purpose with a fuckbuddy

charlize SG

I have this friend who is really pretty. She is very popular with the guys. And yes, she is single so she gets a lot of attention from guys.

She will occassionally go out with a guy friend for coffee movie or lunch/dinner just to hang out and chill. Nothing wrong with being a buddy to a guy friend.

Problem is, she is quite buddy friendly with every guy and quite the touch feely type.

I have told her that she might give some of her guy friends the wrong impresson if she is so buddy friendly (with the buddy touching) with almost ALL guys. She just shrugs and says she is just being friendly.

So guys out there, when a girl is touchy feely with you, it might not mean she wants to be more than just being friends with you.

Really.

It's just a platonic friendship kind of thing.

charlize SG

BadzMaro SG

*carrasses her*

i'm jsut being friendly too.. girl friend. Oh behave!

cherrycola SG

hello

platonic relationship, why are u falling for them?

just think of that girl as a guy. that is as platonic as it can get.

u meet new guy friends, u gonna pang seh your other guy friend?

Of cos it usually starts with platonic frienships. But over time, there is a possibility that one party may start to develop feelings for the other. n if the feelings are not mutual, there goes the friendship.

skythewood SG

if he develop feeling, than what you want him to do?

hide the feeling forever, so you will not feel awkward?

or let him express himself, so he will move on?

but since you are single, why not just give him the chanceto impress you?

kopiosatu SG

feelings not mutual even at the platonic stage

then platonic smlj?

cherrycola SG

if he develop feeling, than what you want him to do?

hide the feeling forever, so you will not feel awkward?

or let him express himself, so he will move on?

but since you are single, why not just give him the chanceto impress you?

What if I do not feel attracted towards him in the bgr way?

I dun wish to be sending out positive signals like going out one on one with him and mislead him into tinking that I am intersted in him as well.

charlize SG

If the guy develop any feelings for the girl and the girl is not interested, then the girl should just tell the guy straight up that she wants friendship only, nothing more.

That's what my friend does. All those guys are interested in her but in the end, they just become one of her buddy type friends. Those who can't accept it will usually stop looking her up. Those who are resigned to just being friends with her end up as her close buddies sometimes.

Who says there can never be platonic relationships?

EarlNeo SG

Unfortunately, people are complicated.

sometime, women tend to think too much..... not all thing or people have to be complicated.

charlize SG

What if I do not feel attracted towards him in the bgr way?

I dun wish to be sending out positive signals like going out one on one with him and mislead him into tinking that I am intersted in him as well.

Tell him straight up that it is only friendship you want.

skythewood SG

What if I do not feel attracted towards him in the bgr way?

I dun wish to be sending out positive signals like going out one on one with him and mislead him into tinking that I am intersted in him as well.

than reject him lah.

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