how to maintance a relationship

last SG · 2002-07-08T11:52:03+00:00

sometimes i really wonder how much we understand about our love one & vice versa? sometimes it is not that we dun wan to share our tots but word just ge...

Xavier SG

perhaps I should not post in this thread and read the posts here instead…afterall…I can’t do what the topic asks..

jAnY SG

wat if commmunication breakdown?
after knowing his/her likes and dislikes, u try not to repeat the same mistake again
but when u stop caring, he/she tot u dun care abt him/her anymore?
falling in love is easy but to stay in love is not dat easy
haiz.... dunno wat talking me

Hershey SG

[color=blue]Understand what you are trying to say Jany...falling in love is easy cause everything will be so sweet...but remaining in love is not going to be easy cause by then, you would know each other better...then there will be ups and downs in the relationship as it will never be a bed of roses....i feel as the relationship goes on a longer time, love would not be so primary..more like tolerence will be the one.... Wink

IceIcE SG

yar i agree with Hershey...loving someone is easy loving the right one is difficult, and to maintain the kind of love between 2 person in a relationship is more difficult.

sometimes one party may be too busy and tends to neglect the other, sometimes the love just seem to fade away or communication may seem to be lacking as time goes by....so to carry on depends on 2 person to be really truthful to each other....and the trust is also important...but this is the most difficult part to have.

Joylet SG

Xavier: not only u my friend ... I think we are all alike. What we can do is to learn to love, to be a better person and be loved in return. Smile

Hershey: got to agree with you on this ... i feel as the relationship goes on a longer time, love would not be so primary..more like tolerence will be the one....

when a relationship comes to this point .... how many of us can withstand the test? not everyone has that kind of tolerance or patience .... ermmm u get what I mean?

CloneMe72 SG

If there is such things that I permanently like or dislike...
it is because I have never
- see it from another point of view;
- taste it cooked in a different way;
- being felt by a entirely different person;
- hear it in its full spectrum.
- do it without prejudice before.

The only things in life that remains unchanged is you will die one day, so why stop living out life to its fullest just because of one dislike.

Hershey SG

[color=blue]Yeah Joylet...not mant people can withstand the test of time...but if you really can...then I am sure you will treasure the relationship more... Smile

jAnY SG

dun believe everything dat u hear from anyone, even from your partner

CloneMe72 SG

Beliefs change… because we evolve.

Joylet SG

Confused

yahhh things change, people change, hearts change ....

I watched and saw that even the goody goody man like ^xiang hai^ .... whom we thought love his wife ^Ah Gui^ a lot ...
can fall for a woman ... just because of an incident (they thought it's dead end for them) .... those who watched the episode will know ...

Neutral

Xavier SG

Cha Png also watch ah? ^5

Hershey SG

[color=darkred]I watched finish the whole show before....come ending...will be even more worse...so watch out okie!! Wink

Hershey SG

Believes change, humans change…we are always changing cause we are growing up , growing more mature in thinking…hence we got to accomodate the changes into our lives….not easy to accept the changes but if we could, then relationship can definately last longer…

IceIcE SG

i think in the end it still depends on both party....if the love between them is so strong then no matter what changes in the end still will be together. Smile

i think the best is dont demand too much sometimes love take time to grow/disappear.....too demanding will be surfocating.

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