Learn to notice the little
things about your date's behavior...by Jennifer
Good
Does that look across the room mean
they want you to come over? Is the way he laughs at your stories a
signal he wants your phone number? Most times, to know what someone
is truly thinking you'd need a crystal ball, but if you pay
attention to the signals their body is sending, you may finally be
able to throw away that tarot deck! The next time you're out on a
date, watch for the following signs that show they may be more
interested than you think!
1. Extended Physical Contact
Start paying attention to the little things. Does their hand
accidentally touch yours? If so, how do they react? Notice whether
they jerk it away quickly, or just simply leave it there. The more
comfortable they are with close interaction, the more interested
they probably are.
2. Lengthy Conversations or Frequent
Communication
If someone frequently seeks you out to talk, or you share longer
conversations than typical, it's a pretty good indicator that they
may be interested, or at least open to becoming more than friends
or acquaintances. Next time you find this happening, take the next
move and ask them if they'd like to go somewhere with
you.
3. Spends More Time With You Than
Typical
Let's face it, you don't spend time with people you don't like. If
someone tends to make it a point to always be around you, chances
are there is a reason. Find out if they're interest is a romantic
one and arrange to do a few things with them alone, like going to
the movies or out to eat.
4. They Go Out Of They're Way To Be
Nice
Pay attention to people who seem to be doing more than necessary
for you. Are they always offering to buy you a drink? Do they
frequently offer to drive you places? Do they always open doors for
you? See if they are doing these things solely for your benefit,
and watch to see if they are doing the same things for other people
as well.
5. They Are Genuinely Interest In
You
Is the person you're with truly interested in how you are doing? Do
they offer advice and counsel when you need it most? Are they
always there for you? If so, you may need to make sure you haven't
been looking for love in the wrong places. Remember, some of the
best romances are based on friendship.
