woah, Ashley! steady lah! *gRinz* 
Hmm..... seriously though, retaliation seems to achieve little
purpose. I've read in magazines that there are couples who have
grown apart, and possibly have their different new beaus, but still
stay together coz of the children. My first thought will be "huh?"
Imagine the kids' confusion when their dad says "hey, meet ur dad's
new gf, XXX!", or when their mum introduces "Kids, this is YYY , ur
mum's latest bf".
Tsk tsk, what a messed-up world.
p/s: i do think i wandered off the topic a bit; my apologies.
:p
