Such is life.
Tht guy would have to love or be interested in her for a great
deal for tht transformation to take place. Its damn hard. She
wouldnt want to change. Its become their second nature.
No wonder ur avatar, pedo bear. Hahah.
Its tht the reason why u are in church? 
Most church girls too holy liao. Buay tahan.
Yup,the guy have to really love her, willing to sacrifice his
time and feelings,while she has to see him for that and detach
herself from her subconscience addiction and break free.
LoL.. xmms.. i cant help it sometimes. hahaha
yeah, there are some super holy super hot ones man.. i have to
prove myself in church first before i am totally accepted by all of
them ar. Cause some didnt think its good idea i come in and start
doing sound systems, music etc cause i am not 'holy' enough and not
been through thier intensive bible classes and training. And i am
sorta a rogue guy there. Kinda out of place, but i humble myself n
kowtoy to them all at the moment... for now..
But the thing is, i answer to the Rev directly, and i just do
what i need to do to help when they need help. Thats how it is. U
cant say no to the Rev, or u may be smitten!