actually i also dunno.
i try not to bring up the topic of wedding in front of the gal,
in case she starts thinking wat actually went wrong.
for 2 yrs, she has already been 'bombarded' by friends on when's
the wedding; a Q she practically has no answer to.
she did try talking to the bf, but seems like his reply was 'i
know u been waiting all this while, so u wan wait, u continue to
wait, else u can let go, i won't blame u'.
i was like ??? when she told me.
she did consult those friends who are already married on how the
initial planning went; but it seems that the couples either has the
guy doing the planning but roping in the gal into the discussion or
the couples sat down and have a discussion on things. But, either
way, it was the guy who started the topic first.
In her case, she has to start the topic herself.
hrmm.. any implication? any advice for her? i am at my wits end,
i dunno how to console her.
