.....how to listen to them when they start to blame you, scold you,
criticise you?
I want to punch instead...
if u cannot beat them join them, be in their league, then slow
exploit them, be cool and be a good listerner, once they know that
you are listening, their tone will come down, slowly make frens
with them, when you are with them, catch their weakness, make
yourself a smiling tiger, be cunning and clever. You need to be
more bad than them inorder to beat them