Hi people, this is my first post, I'm not sure whether this is
the right place to post, but I think it's better to ask the girls
themselves.
I'm a 18 year old guy, currently still studying. There are certain
things that I think is better to talk about with strangers than
with friends.
I have this problem, 1 by 1, I keep on see my friends getting
attached, and left me single. I've bad experience with my ex gfs,
now when I look at pretty girls, I always have the perception that
they just get into a relationship because of money, appearance and
career.
Some times when I try to work on my studies, I cannot
concentrate as I always wonder why am I single while some of my
friends seems to be happily with their gf. I hate to be lonely, but
I'm afraid that it might hurt again.
Some of my friends tell me instead of getting myself hurt, why
not let the girls be the one to get hurt? But to me, any temporary
relationship (those play play type one, fuk the girl and the next
day don't recognise them) seems to be a waste of time to me,
I prefer to have a permenant relationship with the correct
girl.
Maybe some might laugh at me, cuz i'm a guy, can play but dun
wan to play. But what I'm wondering about is that if a girl want a
permenant relationship, how would they decide when they are looking
for the correct guy?
