welcome to singapore :) I think your bf is a mummy's / daddy's
boy......and seems like you don't have a very understanding
father-in-law.
I can totally understand how u feel when they all speak in
chinese and you dun understand a single word, my fiancee is
indonesian and she's always with her family and relatives, speaking
indonesian all the time. It is really tiring smiling for nothing
all the time. So what I do is I always ask my fiancee (who is more
than happy to) to translate for me. It also helps that I understand
a little bit of the language.
You should really sign up for intensive chinese courses now, that
may solve a lot of your woes.
