Hi Virus, thanks for replying.
Well, I can tell you one thing, I don't hang around partying all
night long although I have the chance to do that. Also I don't go
round doing all bad habit things or rather immoral things like
smoking, drinking, having causal sex although I have CHANCES to do
them. One thing is because I have parents that doted on me and
trusted me much enough that I won't do those things. I have friends
who smoke and drink, also so going to pubs or disco to have sex
with anyone girl who say yes. But when they offer me these kind of
so called "entertainment", I say a stern no. Reasons, I do not want
to disappoint my parents, I will have kids in the future(hopefully
I can), I want to set a good example to them and also not wanting
others to harm them, likewise I don't do it to others. As for your
views of guys are also maturing slower, I won't really agree with
that. And also, what do you mean by mature for a guy? I can tell
you frankly that I am not offended by girls before, the thing is I
feel that our Singapore society, many of the young one around my
age are rotting away, they don't seemed to care. Especially the
girls too. To them, chastity+morals=zero. I am just sad to see
that. I can tell you one thing which might shocked you. I have a
friend who is no longer a virgin. He told me that he had another
friend like him who sometimes do those things, or get straight,
have sex as though it is a hobby. Once when he was parking near one
of those red light districts, a pimp came up and offered him girls
with pictures, guess what? Those pictures are photos on student
admin cards of a particular poly, which I will not disclosed. It
includes students even from the BA cos! In another words, even
girls from Poly are actually selling themselves, I am sad to see
that.
Regarding that money things, I do not say I don't like money, but
enough money for a decent life is enough for me. What I mean in
those girls or women cases are the extreme type, for money, they
actually can say yes even to a guy they might not like and then
marry them.
