kopi.. i understand where your opinion is coming from.. but in
the end, we can't use the era to justify how we should feel. just
bcos nowadays more girls are losing their virginity at an early
age, that should not really justify a shift of our sentiments and
mentality towards having to marry a non virgin wife. if the guy is
a non-v himself, then he should not have anything to complain cos
thats "relationship karma" for him.
yes. what is past is past and like what 798 says, mosst impt is
the girl is truthful. but nevertheless, i think it is still very
difficult for some guys to accept the fact that ur wife has been
exposed to another man. even if it was before. My suggestion
is only time, faith and trust in her can help u overcome the
insecurity that you felt.
