When
my sister had a bf while she was still schooling, I didn’t mind it
too. They broke up when she went to Oz to study and ultimately
migrated there while her bf went to the states to get his degree. I
let her decide as she is old enough to make decisions now. And
before we determine that our sister’s bf are crap, I think we ought
to look at ourselves first.
Before I married my gf, her brother
who’s several years older than me told me that I ought to consider
about my future as I was still serving the army. Several years down
the road, the difference in our achievements are very obviously
contrasted. While I own those that a man should own before 30, he
has no house, no car, no career, still asking for money from mother
at the age of 35. And his wife divorced him.
The
bottomline is ourselves. What right do we have to judge our
sister’s bf. Unless he is an outright cheat to lure our sister into
the sex & money trap, then I find no reason why we should
condemn our sister’s bf.
