Many times, when we're in a friendship with a certain someone,
we seem to be more forgiving, more tolerant with the person. then
as time goes by, when it grew to a relationship, you tend to get
angry over things you have always been fine with.
the expectations differs from a friend and a girlfriend, or a
boyfriend. the source of conflicts. how many of you have faced this
issue?
eg. you know this girl/guy has a lot of friends and activities
when you're still friends with him/her, and when you got together
with him/her, you sort of try to control those activities. you
know you should respect him/her and he/she should still be
himself/herself yet the uncontrollable possessiveness takes over
and conflicts happens.
What do you do when you face with this kind of situation? will
you succumb to change for expectation that is for the better? or
will you insist that you are who you are? will you throw those
friends away for the "right" one if the "right" one don't like you
going out with them?