Actually jus curious: so exactly what is the basic minimum a man
should treat a woman that he asked out on a date?
Basic minimum means what a man should do, and do willingly
because they feel it is courtesy and not because it is expected or
expect to be appreciated because of what they did. So I am talking
about unconditional behaviour here.
For example, basic courtesy for women I think would be say Thank
You after a treat. Good courtesy would be to offer to
pay, even if you hope/expect the guy to foot the bill. Or to
offer to get coffee later on.
In a femine world, we gals like to be dated by guys, however dating
is alway misintrepreted by guys as something successful, to us, it
is only an invitation, and when u invite someone, do u expect that
someone to foot the bills or rather treat him/her as your guest who
is good enough in accepting your invitation.
However, in my experience, local guys expected bigger return in
dating, to them, it like an investment, a return of being their
steady gf, care for them, love them and even sex with them.
And when they failed in their investment, they go lame, depressed
and start blaming we local gals as not up to mark or up to their
expectation.
This lead to nothing but neverending sarcastic remarks
and comments on papers and net, hitting at our own
daughters, mothers, sisters and me.
