a younger-guy-older-girl relationship?

last SG · 2008-04-11T19:11:38+00:00

i am 20 and any ger above that would be DAMN shiok la! haha

applesweetgirl SG

hi everyone!

just wondering if guys will actually like girls older than them and does girls like guys younger than them?

do you all find it acceptable? what is the acceptable age gap?

if it's alright with you, what is it that you like about an older girl or a younger guy??

just curious! :D

ifish SG

age are just numbers. if both dont mind, why not?

anyway now so common. not like u got contract marriage at birth so u can pretty much have a r/s with anyone regardless of race, language or religion.

alleggerita SG

For me now, 3 years older/younger than me is the max I can accept.

applesweetgirl SG

i wonder if the guy will always feel like, "this girl is older than me...like an older sister..."

coz i'm a girl. when faced with guys younger than me, even if they are mature for their age, i cannot overcome the age barrier thingy. i would still feel like a big sister to them naturally. and would try to take care/protect them in my own ways.

isnt' it a strange feeling to have should an older girl and a younger guy be in a relationship together? i often wonder how it is like when i see my friends or cousins having younger boyfriends or older girlfriends.

ifish SG

i wonder if the guy will always feel like, "this girl is older than me...like an older sister..."

that is so untrue..

I know most guys my age will prefer older gals then girls our own age.

TS how old?

sebosebo SG

80 % of my past relationships are with girls older then me, the maximum age gap was 4 yrs (i got a feeling i actually attract alot of girls who are older thn me ).

it really depends on whether you can click with the other party in terms of ur mentality, i hv seen older girls who are actually more childish as well as younger girls who are alot more mature.

well applesweetgirl, maybe the age barrier does matter to u. or maybe the guy is giving out signals showing tht he feel sort of threathened that you are older then him. i think a relationship cant start without both parties being able to communicate on a same level, as equals. when that happens, the age dont matter at all already.

Nikar 3 SG

(apple)

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when faced with guys younger than me, even if they are mature for their age, i cannot overcome the age barrier thingy. i would still feel like a big sister to them naturally. and would try to take care/protect them in my own ways.

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in a way, that's true.

it's kind of like a natural instinct for guys to protect girls mah, and for me, if the girl is older, i feel no instinct or need whatsoever to protect her, because she can handle things better than younger girls etc.....and i will also feel that she is "on the same level" as me.

guys tend to feel more "man" when next to a younger girl because they have this feeling the girl is more vulnerable etc.....hard to explain.

for me, i see older girls more as friends or at the most fark-buddies....not really gf material even if she is farking pretty.

Nikar 3 SG

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in a way, that's true.

guys tend to feel more "man" when next to a younger girl because they have this feeling the girl is more vulnerable etc.....hard to explain.

for me, i see older girls more as friends or at the most fark-buddies....not really gf material even if she is farking pretty.

Midlusionz SG

Actual fact i prefer older girls lol

Deino SG

Actual fact i prefer older girls lol

haha...me too i think......they are most likely to be more matured than younger girls

Miss Tiny SG

I can't accept guys younger than me by more than 1 yr. I dunno, it's kind of a mentality in me that older guys are more mature (although not always the case) but I just prefer someone who's older than me (not more than 3 yrs).

FireIce SG

i used to think 2 yrs younger is the max...
now i think i dun mind 10 yrs younger

棒棒堂！！！

>slurps<

Miss Tiny SG

i used to think 2 yrs younger is the max...
now i think i dun mind 10 yrs younger

棒棒堂！！！

>slurps<

Wah...lao zha bor!

^tamago^ SG

26 to 36, still ok mah. Laughing Twisted Evil

FireIce SG

26 to 36, still ok mah. Laughing Twisted Evil

u wanna apply?

applesweetgirl SG

[that is so untrue..

I know most guys my age will prefer older gals then girls our own age.

TS how old?]

i'm 21 this year.

glad to know actually that some guys still appreciate older girls. haha. but i really doubt that such relationships can last? i will worry that the guy...when he grow up...he might not really like that girl anymore...maybe he will think things like, "the girl not so hot liao." or what. hahaha.

well, anyway, thanks for everyone's replies.

for me, currently, i don't really like older guys, although i used to like them a lot a lot. it's because i find it hard to be friends with older guys and expect them to hold no motives or intentions. they have all kinds of tricks up their sleeves and i'm just tired to be with them.

however, younger guys are more innocent in a way and really fun to hang out with. just having fun as friends... don't need to care about whether they have any bad motives or intentions. i used to don't like hanging out with younger guys too because i have the mentality that they are childish. but actually some have really mature thinkings that i am kinda impressed with. and recently i find that my older guy friends sometimes are soooo dots.

correct me if u think i'm wrong!

sebosebo SG

in my experience, the relationship lasts just like any other relationship. in fact...i feel more "real" when im with an older girl, rather than just romancing and entertaining each other.

we lasted 1.5 yrs and we broke up because she went to UK. looking back, i wont mind staying with her till mid 20s and then get married.

like i say...its all about the mentality. id go into every relationships with no expectations, and then...it usually will blossom into something beautiful before you know it:D

Midlusionz SG

[that is so untrue..

I know most guys my age will prefer older gals then girls our own age.

TS how old?]

i'm 21 this year.

well, anyway, thanks for everyone's replies.

correct me if u think i'm wrong!

If the love is meant to last.. Being hot or not doesnt matter so the main point here is whether the both party are willing to commit into the r/s to make it work and have confidence and trust in one and other.

purpledragon84 SG

http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/291499

one of sgf's very own..

gigabyte14 SG

gimme an older girl anytime