And further more, i am very particular about guy who dun go for
looks, it either a lie or he is mad.
Yes, if you are looking for a girl friend, fling or affairs,
looks is important. But if you are looking for a wife, looks
is just a bonus, not a must. I read from article in china
paper few months ago about the advantages of marrying a ugly wife
and it makes so much sense.
I used to have gorgeous beautiful girl friends with body you can
die for. But it's not worth it. Because they think they
are of top quality, they are very demanding. Meanwhile, the
marginal utility of visual or sensual pleasure continues to
decline. After a few months, you will find that no matter how
good looking a girl is, you just get used to the looks and it
became just another normal face.
It is like paying a higher and higher maintenance fees for
something is the declining in value. Sounds like a BMW to
me.
For guys, focus on the values of the woman. Moral standard is
very important as well as family values.
For girls, don't just focus on your looks. One of my
friend picked her wife because she has very nicely maintained toe
nails. He told me if a girl bothers and cares even down to
her toe nails, you can be sure that she can maintain you and the
family well.