My dad never used violence on me.
I dunno why I was very afraid of him when young.
I see him stare at me only I kan cheong liao.
Let him sign report bok also scared.
Until sec 3 then I started chatting with him and find him a
nice guy.
I even asked him if I can join gangs. He asked me if I get to
lead a group of ppl. I said join as kah kia. He said dun waste
time, do rubbish work like dog and then kenna fark by 'big brother'
for what. And when you get beaten up, they said you shame them. I
am grateful for his advice.
He never make decisions for me. He just make an effort at
the right moment to make me stay on a a clean track.