u got try going to the bf's place to get your stuff back?
when she asked you to go all the way to get your own stuff back,
i'm sure she didn't expect you would really go and do it. Maybe she
knows she is in trouble, so she tries to avoid getting a thrashing
by being louder than you.
if u have time and patience, go get your stuff and see what
happens next lo. She might not ask you to go and get your stuff
back anymore.
aiyoh say so much also dunno got any use or not
we dunno ur situation well enough
but yeh 血浓于水