Well seems it's a interesting topic to be discussed.
Actually I would like to quote this word, "Kiasu", to describe BOTH
SINGAPOREAN AND PRCs. This is bacause we came from the same root,
just that grew in the diff environments. Maybe it is the common
identity that can be found in these two groups of Chinese, in fact
all the Chinese around the world.
I dont know if you are 3rd 4th or even 6th gen of Chinese
Singaporean, but one thing that I am very very sure that is,
sometimes you may think your father or grandfather's behaviours and
habits are totally unacceptable to you.
WHY?
It is the reflections of diff in cultures, level of education, and
environments.
Back to this issue, I do agree with you that some PRCs do not wish
to queue up, and it is obvious. However, how many of you've noticed
that actually Singaporeans' driving manner is also quite
aggressive? Certainly not all but partially. Aren't the two cases
the same?
I bet you have already seen hell lots of the ugly sides of
Singpaoreans, but under this culture, this environment, this kind
of education system. Everything seems to be just fine. Sometimes
foreigners dont understand why we have to queue up for donuts for
hours, isnt it strange? Ask yourself.