i think, a lady should carry her own handbag because all of her
personal accessories are in the bag. With all the feminist calls
for women independence, it is obligatory that they carry their own
bag. If it is too heavy, then it is their problem. Who ask them to
buy a BIG bag?
But in situations when the lady is carrying her handbags and say
other stuff in her hands, I might volunteer to carry those other
stuff because, i think the lady will look unglam(i.e. her own
handbag and other stuff). This is unacceptable to me because i only
walk or hangout with presentable ladies.