how to know if a guy have feeling for me?

last SG · 2006-04-07T16:15:33+00:00

A msg to all shy guys: U gonna be daring.. Do not be afraid of failure.. Rem tt a kite flies against, not with the wind.. Gd luck.. All the best..

qq.gal SG

hello guys out there, hope that i could get some advise here....

how to tell if a guy have feeling for me?
will be be shown through the way he talks to me? the way he look at me? or what??

please help....

many many thanks.
jocelyn

casino_king SG

depends on how strongly he feels. If he falls head over heels in love with you then he will die for you, with no problems.

coffeeortea SG

sexual feelings: go naked in front of him, if he walks away, he has feelings of disgust.

other feelings: just ask him.

casino_king SG

ya I agree, guys are stupid... even if they are willing to die for you, they try not to show it. they are just scared little boys inside. You know that Avril song "complicated?" it is true, so if you want to know his feelings, be alone wih him and see how he behaves and treats you. In front of his friends:

"but you've become

Somebody else round everyone else
You're watching your back like you can't relax
You're tryin' to be cool you look like a fool to me
Tell me

Why do you have to go and make things so complicated?
I see the way you're acting like you're somebody else gets me frustrated
Life's like this you
And you fall and you crawl and you break
and you take what you get and you turn it into honesty
and promise me I'm never gonna find you fake it
no no no

You come over unannounced
dressed up like you're somethin' else
where you are ain't where it's at you see
you're making me
laugh out when you strike your pose
take off all your preppy clothes
you know you're not fooling anyone
when you've become"

Ask him to go shopping with you and let him pay and pay and see if he is willing to go bankrupt for you. If you really like him pay him back the money and if not take the stuff and run for your life. You have nothing to lose... that is the advantage of being a girl. On the other hand the advantage of being a guy is that they have nothing to lose if they sleep with you for fun and then run for their lives.

tiggersgd SG

wah! like that also can wo... Rolling Eyes

anyway qq.gal, if the guy likes u, as a gal u should be able to pick it up. gals are normally more sensitive than guys. else, u act cute n ask him if he's into u.

coffeeortea SG

wow.. measure of love at its greatest = sacrificing one's life?

props to you.

qq.gal SG

hmm, too bad i am not sensitive enough to detect if he likes me.

thanks everybody...

cornyfish2000 SG

Just spend more time with him, ask him out etc. If he's not interested in you, he'll freak out.. at least i will if i was the guy. Laughing

casino_king SG

I guess that's why you are called cornyfish and not hornyfish... many guys, especially the dirty old men will take what they can for the sex.

casino_king SG

So it is really really bad advice… it is better for the guy to make the first move and the girls check him out…

stellazio SG

this is like the 12345th time i’m seeing this kinda thread..

tiggersgd SG

not bad wo...and get to sit in the FL cefiro too. Mr. Green passenger side can get massage too. Laughing

cornyfish2000 SG

Huh? I dun get it..

tiggersgd SG

Laughing eh, nvm Very Happy

casino_king SG

Listen to the songs.... 99.99999999% of them are love songs. 99.999999% of the new songs are about love.... so this type of thread will always pop up even after the 123456789th time.

yoghurt SG

im not a guy but here's a shot.

does he 'suddenly' sms u during the day and start conversations with ya? it's kinda obvious if he says things like "u very cute la" or stuff like dat. and he'd ask u out on most weekends all the time. he'll make sure he sms-es u "good night" everyday to let u noe ur the last person on his mind b4 he sleeps. not forwarded messages though. when u do go out, he takes the effort to make sure u noe he's lookin at u. he dresses up and tries to impress. he shuts up bout other hot babes around. he asks alot bout u.

correct anot huh?? Mr. Green

mochou SG

why dun you make him have feeling for you instead of sitting there and guess it?

Ask him out, sms him, call him, if he likes you, he will meet you up and go out together, reply your sms asap, talk to you for hours. And if this happen, things will go smoothly.

If he doesnt like you, he will find excuses to avoid you when you ask him out. he will take half an hour to reply one simple sms, talking on the phone for 10 minutes he will start to find excuse to hang up.

casino_king SG

You might be talking about guys who have nothing better to do... in which case you might want to steer clear of him. Men are usually more interested in their careers and although they will find time... what you describe is a guy who is a little kookoo with nothing going on in his life and head.

cornyfish2000 SG

Well this does not apply across the board.. there are some guys who have never had a gf, very shy, or think that they are not good enough for you. If this guy belongs to this group of people, then alas... both of you may be harbouring a crush on each other without showing any signs at all, if you do not make the first move and ask him out. Laughing

Manager433 SG

He will offer to pay for everything each time u 2 goes shopping. Trust me. But after both of u breaks up, he will regret becoz he feels he is being cheated and make used of.