Approaching a gal II

lonestar86 SG

I just wanna share my personal experience with u guys.

Im a poly student, currently doing my final yr project. Ive to be in sch everyday from 8.30am to 6pm for 12wks. Being a guy, of cus Ive taken note of some of the babes and I get to see them everyday. Ive approached 2 of them and managed to get their msn. Like many of you have said in forum topic: Approaching a gal, dun straight away ask for their mobile no, cus mobile no is kinda more personal. Get their msn and chat with them 1st. Remember, u gonna have patience if u wanna know gals. When the time is right, then ask her for her mobile no. Thats the strategy. It works for me. Cus Ive got the 1st gals mobile no after chatting with her for abt 2 wks. Regarding the 2nd gal, Ive just got her msn a few days ago. Ill ask her for her mobile no when the time is right. U guys might wanna try my method.

However, b4 u approach them, theres 2 very important points to take note:

1) Eye contact
If you get to see her everyday (tts my case), make sure theres eye contact between and her whenever u guys met. If she doesnt wanna look at u, u can 4get about approaching her. Cus most probably she is not interested in u. On the other hand, if she always make eye contact with u, its good for u. Cus it means tt she has noticed u and tts a good sign.

2) Smile
You gonna take the initiative to smile to her. If she returns her smile, then congrats and u might wanna approach her. However, if u smile to her, but she ignores u, then too bad, u can forget abt approaching her. Cus most probably she is not interested in u. On the other hand, if she smile to u even b4 u smile to her, u r in luck! Go ahead and approach her immediately. Cus ull success. Trust me.

Last but not least, I wanna thank all of u guys for ur suggestions posted in the previous forum topic: Approaching a gal. Ive took many of ur advice b4 I approach the gals. Thanks guys.

Finally, my word of advice to all guys who have planned to approach gals:

You must try. Cus if u dun try, ull never know what u can achieve.

Good luck and all the best.. Smile

S_T_F_U SG

cough cough cough.. Rolling Eyes

browniebaobao SG

by having eye contacts and smile back at u doesn't mean she's interested.

she could be friendly only wor.

unless there's other reasons, if not, it's rude not to have eye contact with someone when talking to him/her leh.

FX_82 SG

Finally, my word of advice to all guys who have planned to approach gals:

You must try. Cus if u dun try, ull never know what u can achieve.

Good luck and all the best.. Smile

Well the approach is meant to impress and in a way get to break the ice thats all not too much, not too little.Jus like yin and yang balance. Wink

M©+square SG

It's worth a try, the kid did it. Mr. Green

xavier1979 SG

Bravo. Twisted Evil

newmanmback SG

Originally posted by lonestar86:
I just wanna share my personal experience with u guys.

Im a poly student, currently doing my final yr project. Ive to be in sch everyday from 8.30am to 6pm for 12wks. Being a guy, of cus Ive taken note of some of the babes and I get to see them everyday. Ive approached 2 of them and managed to get their msn. Like many of you have said in forum topic: Approaching a gal, dun straight away ask for their mobile no, cus mobile no is kinda more personal. Get their msn and chat with them 1st. Remember, u gonna have [b]patience if u wanna know gals. When the time is right, then ask her for her mobile no. Thats the strategy. It works for me. Cus Ive got the 1st gals mobile no after chatting with her for abt 2 wks. Regarding the 2nd gal, Ive just got her msn a few days ago. Ill ask her for her mobile no when the time is right. U guys might wanna try my method.

However, b4 u approach them, theres 2 very important points to take note:

1) Eye contact
If you get to see her everyday (tts my case), make sure theres eye contact between and her whenever u guys met. If she doesnt wanna look at u, u can 4get about approaching her. Cus most probably she is not interested in u. On the other hand, if she always make eye contact with u, its good for u. Cus it means tt she has noticed u and tts a good sign.

2) Smile
You gonna take the initiative to smile to her. If she returns her smile, then congrats and u might wanna approach her. However, if u smile to her, but she ignores u, then too bad, u can forget abt approaching her. Cus most probably she is not interested in u. On the other hand, if she smile to u even b4 u smile to her, u r in luck! Go ahead and approach her immediately. Cus ull success. Trust me.

Last but not least, I wanna thank all of u guys for ur suggestions posted in the previous forum topic: Approaching a gal. Ive took many of ur advice b4 I approach the gals. Thanks guys.

Finally, my word of advice to all guys who have planned to approach gals:

You must try. Cus if u dun try, ull never know what u can achieve.

Good luck and all the best.. Smile [/b]

i tried all your methods but will not work....because i look like

Mr. Green

lonestar86 SG

i'm not very gd looking also, but i've succeed mah.
Jus keep on trying, never give up..

charlize SG

You sound more like a playboy than anything else.

1st girl.

Then 2nd girl.

Knn, how many girls you want? Laughing

choco B SG

Frickin inspirational Mr. Green
/clapclap!

lonestar86 SG

You sound more like a playboy than anything else.

1st girl.

Then 2nd girl.

Knn, how many girls you want?

No mah. I'm not a playboy Exclamation
Knowing them doesn't mean i wanna date them rite??
I've no ill intention whatsoever.
Just wanna befriend with them. Wink
As simple as that.
Im enlisting soon, tts y I wanna know more pretty gals b4 goin into the army mah. Very Happy
May i know how old r u??

charlize SG

CB, now want to sian me some more. Laughing

S_T_F_U SG

lets him go sian u lar. he's thinking you're a gal. Laughing

hdb_slacker SG

lmao Very Happy

lonestar86 SG

CB, now want to sian me some more.

i'm not trying to sian u..
jus wanna know ur age..
y can't u just tell me ur age??

lonestar86 SG

i'm not trying to sian u..
jus wanna know ur age..
y can't u just tell me ur age??

S_T_F_U SG

sum ppl are secretive about their ages. dun kpo go ask ley. Laughing

CryoLind SG

yah lor...sometimes when guys smile at me i smile back oso, cos my face already quite 'dao' look liao. but doesn't mean i'm interested in them oso.

ANd when guys keep lookin at you..sometimes will ' gin' back..does tat mean i am interested too?

lonestar86 SG

Things doesnt always turn out to be the way I want them to be..
Rem the 2nd gal last time I was talking abt..
Ive been chatting with her in msn for the past 1 wk n I must say we can get along very well.. Very Happy
We chat abt anything n everything under the sun..
This afternoon, I asked her for her mobile no..
But I didnt managed to get it.. Sad + Surprised
She replied something like, not very convenient we keep in touch thr msn ok?
Then I answered yes..
What exactly went wrong?? Mad
Ive absolutely no idea.. Confused
I doubt Ill ask her again..
Hai~~

xavier1979 SG

Different girls have different comfort levels. In your case, it may a greater challenge than you initially thought. Try to make her feel comfortable with your friendship first, i.e. being a sincere friend in every way. No need to rush things. Gd luck!