Help a shy guy out pls :)

ApeHead SG

Hello everyone,you all must be thinking why i'm up so early in the morning hehe...well i tried to sleep but have been thinking about a problem of mine.

Ok here is the thing..i am a shy guy though i don't look the type at all.I've read about making eye contect in this forum but i donno why when i look at a girl for example as soon as she turned to my direction i will look the other way Sad I just can't seem to find my guts to keep looking.

I've never approached any gals in my life b4...last time always friend help me as the girl i wanted to know is their friend.So what can i do if my target is not my friend's friend?

hobochua SG

i have a solution to offer to u.
1)what you can do is to smile without opening ur mouth to her not every min
is like a few mins u turn then u smile k eye conact is impt u must have the courage !!!!!
2)U can also treat her like a statue so that u wun feel that embrasses.

I try this myself it works for me Laughing

lightmrwan_sg SG

hey apehead

I'm a shy guy myself.. Got no gf n not even an ex.. Frenz kept askin when I'm eva gonna get a girl but **** it i don't care... I juz can't seem to like girl of my own race.. Whether her skin tone is fair or wadeva, I juz can't be attracted by it... I'm malay by the way... N even if dat girl's boobs ar ****in big, really I don't get the erections or wadsoeva...

As to my sex drive, i just masturbate for too many ****in times n dat handles my hormones...

But my shyness fades away slightly when I'm out jammin with my band or hangin with them...

By the way, I''m turnin 18 n I just discovered this website....

Everyone here's open minded???

PUNK ROCK: IS NOW OR NEVER

SGpork SG

N even if dat girl's boobs ar ****in big, really I don't get the erections or wadsoeva...

Surprised
oh no...
Twisted Evil

lightmrwan_sg SG

Aren't u guys gonna welcome me or wadeva??? Sad

Anyway, yea I meant girls of my race... Well, majority of mly girls boobs are big from what i observed in my ITE... As much as I want a ****in erections, i can't...

N I'm not askin for any goddamn help, you know...

I'm juz sayin out loud...

GO DO WHAT YOU LIKE
BUT PLEASE DO IT WISE

xavier1979 SG

And now back to the main topic...

Try glancing the girl and hold for a second before looking away. Need not look at her eyes. Try not to stare. Keep a light smile on your face at all times. Smile, not grin.

hiyohi SG

u are not the only one who have nv had a gf in your life

i'm one example...

n i'm going to be 18 soon...

but still got a long way to go lol

take your time Laughing

BrUtUs SG

jz go socio more with gals… u dun hv to be interested in them, jz treat them as friends… interact more and u will hv more confidence…

lonestar86 SG

You must try, no matter what.
Trust me. Youll be amazed by what u can actually do and achieve.
Im a real life example.
I didnt know I actually have the courage to approach gals until Ive tried it.
So what are you waiting for??
Go out there and start approaching them.

Once again, my word of advice to all guys who have planned to approach gals:

You must try. Cus if u dun try, ull never ever know what u can achieve.

Good luck and all the best.. Smile

ApeHead SG

Thanks for the tips...but when i approach them what i say first? Scared i cok up Razz

lonestar86 SG

tough question
depends on the situation..
dun really have right or wrong answer, or rather no definite answer..
tt's y ur brain must think really fast..
tt's all i can say.. Smile

Good luck n all the best..

S_T_F_U SG

jiayou those peeps... Laughing

exge SG

easy .. go up to her and ask " ai sio kan mai " if you come back alive then you are 1 very lucky person... Laughing

xavier1979 SG

Originally posted by lonestar86:
tough question
depends on the situation..
dun really have right or wrong answer, or rather no definite answer..
tt's y ur brain must think really fast..
tt's all i can say.. Smile

Good luck n all the best..

Agree on this one. Think fast, but watch your tongue. Start with the basic conversation pieces, i.e. "Hello..", "How are ya.." etc.

Remember, half the time the girl is also curious to know you as you are to her.

newmanmback SG

i 31 yrs old oredi...still playing with kittens Mr. Green

toyota-corolla SG

well i agree!
let me share my story with you, hopefully it work lah

as there was once i was on a train to enous, suddenly my friend called and ask why you so late, then once again i start all my nonsence about what happening on the train, and there was this CHIJ girl kept looking at me and laughing at my jokes, oh well, what i did was, smile at her and contiuned my jokes. well after i left the train i take a look at her again, she was there smiling. my heart melt? LOL

FBI SG

learn to associate with ppl more often and u will find yourself not shy after some time like me

toyota-corolla SG

yea agree too, like me too, know people for less than an hour i can be as wild as them