LoVe Or WoRk

sw_wayne SG

WeLl.. i tink tis sound kinda boring.. but it’s quite a prob in my head… SHOULD love comes before work or izzit de other way round? will u mind earning 3k per month to go for ur love or will u rather work 16k for 8 yrs and u CANNOT have de CHANCES to go for ur love.. to me.. it’s kinda hard to choose caz there’s are too many pros and cons.. i dunno “which one” over-weight “which one”... that’s y i tink commends are welcomed here…

^spidee^ SG

I’d choose love. 3k is a decent sum to live comfortably in Singapore. 8 years without love is way too long..

Grasprt SG

IMO one should work and make a living FIRST and then find love.

What is the point of finding love if you cannot afford it?

The question would be like, would you rather be in love and struggling to make a living staying together or...Earn and live well and then slowly find the love?

I used to be in that situation...would i wanna get married first and live poor or...work hard earn money live well then get married and live happily ever after?

Razz

dragg SG

go for the money first.

if you have money and you are not weird you will find love.

Leon_FC3S SG

1st Work
2nd Love

^spidee^ SG

So what happened?

browniebaobao SG

u mean 16k mthly for 8 years? get married first la..

but then hor.. to me.. money enough to spend can liao.. sheng bu dai lai si bu dai qu.

Grasprt SG

I worked hard and now im happily married to my high school sweetheart and we both have a lovely son.

Very Happy

xavier1979 SG

1. $3k per month + 1 love
2. $16k for 8 yrs + ???? love

I'll choose Option 2. At least I get to live a very comfortable life if i dun get love.

^spidee^ SG

Aww.. that's a perfect, happy ending! Very Happy

mrsmall SG

option 2

dragg SG

choose money. there is no guarantee when it comes to love.

the Bear SG

there is no guarantee that love will work, that is why it is so valuable that you have to grab it when you can...

work will ALWAYS be there if you want it...

^spidee^ SG

Only 3 people choose love.. Confused Are we too idealistic or are the rest too practical?

sw_wayne SG

i dunno… caz tat 16k izzit hard to earn.. u need to like struggle for 2 to 3 yrs in order to get a paid of 16k.. but den it doesnt really a “MUST” u sure earn tat amount… u get wat i mean?? it’s like a dilema to me… but 3k it’s like work few months wif ur certs u sure can be promoted and at least earn tat amount… rite?? wat will u choose den?

^spidee^ SG

Depends on your needs I'd say. Do you mean that choosing that 16k job will give you zero social life and no chance of maintaining a relationship?

ha8n SG

both

elektra SG

which one will gif u long term happiness…

sw_wayne SG

err… how i noe?? i tink i prefer love..

Inzaghi SG

actually i cant get wat u mean…y during this 8yrs i cant go for ur love??...are u under some contract whereby u cant get married in this 8yrs??