It's easy to fall into a relationship, but to get out from the
relationship will bring the consequence of pain and recurrent
thoughts of guilt. As for the above example, I feel sorry for
mistyblue with the problems that she has to go through together
with the family.
As a neigboring country to Singapore (M'sia), and not to degrade
other members from other neigboring countries in SEA, we see the
same thing happening here as well. PRC, HK and Taiwan girls who
gets attached here is a common sight, and the consequence that
follow, though not fully 100% is similar. Though I may not have any
examples, but I do hear these things occurring over and over
again.
About terms in degradation of our own girls, so far, I've not heard
much, but I'm sure, everywhere is the same no matter where we
are.