You might think that you are doing it for her good. But have you
ever thought of how she would feel?
Sometimes they just feel that they are loved by their family, but
dejected by the fact that they dont respect their decisions. In the
end she has no one to go to for her problems and it could lead her
to suffer from depression.
Or worse, purposely do something to make the family angry.
The more you restrict someone, the more they fight to escape.
Sorry. abit agitated. 
