thanks for friends out there take the time to read and post
advises and sorry to those find it bore.
Castrate? definately not a solution as that is only the root but
not the cause.
for my case, not the wild flowers that kills but the "friendship"
that kills. "Lady friends" that care about and take good care of
you when you are sick, encourage you when you are down, do their
best to resolve you problem.
my PA is one of them, sister of my good friend so, my accountant
also...more.
me not a night lover, me no spend night in KTV or what ever, me
doing what pisces8 advised, thanks to you pisces8, me chat with my
wife, kids back in Spore over internet for any free nights in China
but belive me, that doesn't help much in China. atleast for my
case.
settle my family in CHina is an option but not a solution for now
as my kids are still young and Spore is a better place for their
education. my wife is running her own family business and got her
own set of problem, she can't just walk away.
me can't resign for the sake of my family back in Spore. the living
standard in Spore in high and me can't affort to live on with the
starting pay now a day company is offering.
me feel very lost and pressurize. just can't understand why be nice
to people can end with problems. me think me no good in handling
"friendship".
