I think we are starting to become so predictable and
stone-aged.
Our mind don't grow anymore.
Once we see some gals kissing, EEEEEKKKKKkk we go,
like we never seen anything before in life, are we so
shallow?
We are trying to be so self-righteous that we want to direct
how youngsters think, learn and play like movie show directors like
that.
We always try to lock up our minds, mindsets and etc to tell
ourselves not to do this not to do that, blab blab blab but at the
end of the day,
we never wonder why pple out there are doing all sorts of things to
actually get attention, play unique, "improve" their culture daily,
at least "SELL" their culture, make some form of value out of it.
Like why you watch Star Wars - some green old wrinkled thing waving
a laser tube around, or
Harry Potter - some kid wearing robes flying on a broom,
why we SELF-IMPRISON our minds?
When we imprison ourselves, does anybody come around to reward
us?
No.
Gals go hanky panky, go ahead lah, maybe make a movie, drama,
shortfilm out of it, like the US's L Word, don't they make it
fancyful, attractive?
The guys go grumpy over it, wat self-reflection blab blab crap!!!
Don't grumble, there are still many hetero females around!!!
Can afford to have many gfs? GO AHEAD LAH, nobody blocking
you!!!
Don't just flock to Geylang, the pubs / karaokes, whatever sizzy
places you can think of, all you have is lots of foreign chicks and
STD carriers then, what does that bring you? THINK!!!! At end of
the day, Nothing wat. Even prostitution is considered outdated. You
think if some damn act-cute revealing star got on movies bare-all,
boxoffice sure hit ah? NO LAH, everywhere almost the same lah,
Geylang also have, some got more $ will consider Batam, Thai, Viet,
lots of places to go lah. Nothing NEW already.
Pple only rewards
an interesting "VALUABLE" culturally-rich and exciting
society,
not a socially tied-up culturally repeating "like some old lecture
chanted over and over again" grumpy society.
Why reality shows used to be popular? After so many rounds of
survivor, AI,
blab blab blab, pple have already gotten tired of reality shows as
well. yet we are still trying to backdate ourselves into believing
that tied-up rules will still bind the pple and believe that some
long-time exposed and over-exploited truths / uglies in the society
DO NOT EXIST. But the truth is even reality shows are not selling
so well nowadays, that's why we hear "YOU HAVEN'T SEEN THE BEST OF
OUR ** SHOW YET" from some dun-know-wat showhost.
Why not at this age of emergence of new concepts after year
2000,
make a change of things huh? Do something unexpected, fresh when
expected stuff does not SELL well anymore?
Pls, as citizens of our own society, pls let our society update
itself with its own competitive edge, truths and feelings to
determine the exact measures of "VALUE" alongside with the world
and not imprison ourselves in our minds.
I am not trying to upset the ethic balance here, I am saying we can
still "ethnically" accept the truth of changes within our society
without upsetting the balance.
Why not we practice try not to preach and publicly condemn the acts
of others, and try to practice the best art of sticking to monitor
actions of our very own only? That way not only we can lessen the
risk of us being more ethnically degrading and detrimental to
ourselves and devalued. That way we can also try to nurture some
kind of value that pple around the world will see in us other than
plain cikobeks, condemners, grumblers, see?
This is my personal point of view,
I hope pple who will take heed, pls take heed,
pple who will not, pls take no offence. 
