cApitaland SG if its jus one time then i dun tink nid make a big fuss la. unless you eating sumwhere expensive or you realli cannt afford
Lorry` SG nope.. go dutch is nothin wrong what.... but some girls really expect ple to pay for them.... some are zi dong though.. they pay for themselves
Fireindahouse SG ok its at a cafe her share was like $20++ for a student working holiday job for me...
Deino SG NO.......dun be silly lah......you will think about this only if you have something for her.......for me its a habit....if i have money i like to pay for people
Darkness_hacker99 SG I think it's between the act of being a gentleman and being feeling sorry for the wallet. For me: If I go out with a girl for a meal, I'll pay for her. In my opinion, it's the act of gentleman. But if I were to go out with a huge group of friends(which consist of girl), then we split the bill. There are exception cases when the girl or a particular whose family's financial is not so good, I'll pay for them.
nuub1987 SG so conclusion is... dinner with 1 girl = pay for her dinner with group = dutch dinner with financial not so good ppl = help pay for them ?
BeautifulBetty SG Some girls are known to be freeloaders. Just because they are females they expect the male to pay for their meals even though the male is just a colleague, a common friend or merely an acquaintance. Real thick skin of them like those in my office.
jondizzle foshizzle SG If you’re just out having dinner with no relationship between the two of you other than just being friends; it not being a date or anything then no you’re not obligated to pay.
julietta SG ya lor ya lor. tat time my friend told me it is tian jing di yi for de guy to pay for every expense when gg out wif de gal. i was like WTF when de gal realli cmi
KronE SG how abt if u’re going lunch/dinner with ur gf and everytime u need to pay for her expenses even u’re almost broke and yet u didnt want her to know ?
Nikar2 SG no lah, if 1st time u go makan with female friend, u pay. then subsequent times, don't pay, but once in a while, offer her a treat. it's basic courtesy. if you treat her 300 times out of 300 times, she'll be freak out unless u're her bf/
joyc SG If it's the first time, a perfect genetleman will pay first. Onwards they can set a protocol based on .....
