From HWZ:
we habben marry yet...
she say next time we marry,
her pay:
1) for herself to spend (she claims that her pay not alot, lan
jiao... quite alot for someone with 2 years working exp only), she
buys ex ex stuffs one. i see liao also heartache
my pay:
1) hse loan (i think also not alot though)
2) car loan
3) utilities
4) insurance
5) savings (optional for her)
6) misc recurring charges (eg TV license, internet, hp.....)
7) topup her expenses if she not enough to use
maid
9) my lao pei lao bu
10) her lao pei lao bu
she say to prevent me from overspending she willing to help me by
taking all my $$ and everyday gib me $5(or any appropriate amt
lar)....
she say if cannot fulfill the abot req then no need to get
married...
sometimes i think of it also headache
How? 
