hey man
i using a sony ericsson fone.
if it's a k series fone i.e. k500i. k508i, or k700i den it is easy.
jus turn on the infrared or the bluetooth. den use ur PC to
transfer. your PC will autodetect the presence of the fone if it is
windows xp.
to transfer to your own specific folder in the fone, u need file
manager software. go sony ericsson website, go support den type ur
fone model. go to software and d/l e file manager
application.
need more help jus send me a msg. i'll be glad to help u
if u're using T series, u can dream on.
regards.