There is nothing to do if she has already 2 timed you. Have a
heart to heart talk with her and see what when wrong. Ask her if
she still wants to carry on the relationship because there is no
point going on if she still wants to flirt around. You will have to
access the situation from her answers.
Well, trust once broken is hard to rebuild, but it still can be.
However, it needs help from both parties, so she will have to live
with you checking on her and stuff like that. But this is necessary
to rebuild a relationship. At the same time, you will also have to
keep your emotions in check and not jump to conclusions all the
time.
Well, you can confront her about it and see what she says. Is it
just a friendly kiss (Is she open minded) or those deep throat
french kiss, or there can be something more to it. Bear in mind
your approach or she may become defensive.
If she has no remorse, better try to find out if there has been
crack signs in your relationship whihc you failed to detect. Access
and see if you both want to fix it and carry on. If not, there is
no point holding onto a failed relationship. You might be together
for a long time, but if it does not work, move on. There is nothing
worse then clinging onto a relationship there is going no
where.
I would say that you are also getting matured emotionally as what
good can you do if you destroy stuff? Did they offend you?
With the current economy, things happen, and bad things tend to
happen together. Keep a chin up and start looking for a new job.
Can't do much can you? You can just sit at home and mop and cry but
that won't get you anything.
