girls often give in their first time earlier compared to guys in
terms of age. because it's common that guys date younger girls and
vice versa.
it's nothing really that wrong to have sex when you are in a
relationship, but one thing about the age is good, it reflects the
mentality of the person when deciding to commit in the act.
i have a friend, who had sex with a 15, of course she was very
consential and did not object nor reject having sex with my friend,
but the very "sway" thing happened... she got pregnant and of
course... it's when the family finds out, lodge police report...
blah, blah, blah... my friend did tried to solve the problem (by
asking her to abort.. too young to have a child, no $$ to support
the child), but the girl, who probably can't think straight at that
point of time... took the money for abortion to go shopping spree
and of course, tummy gets bigger....
when the case was present to a judge, the girl, who was afraid to
be disowned by family, testified that my friend raped her.... but
of course, this is not admissable in court as there has no evidence
that she was raped. there was no bruise, no "forced entry".... so
my friend kenna fine for dunno how many thousand....
MORAL OF THE STORY... it's ok if you want to challenge and defy the
law.... but know your partner well enough first. there are girls
who first give in happily then regret when they meet someone
better. to not look bad, girls tell their new boy that they were
raped by ex... worst case, family finds out, girls scared, say boy
rape her, then go police....
GUYS... pls be careful.... nowadays ppl change face faster than you
turn a page. why go thru all the trouble just for a quick
thrill?