the thing abt jie di lian is.. there is no maximum age gap
rather than an 'acceptable' upper and lower limit.
As long as the guy is at the reasonable age for having crushes,
i.e. teenager.
and not some 6 yr old... cos tt would be.. err "mu zi lian"
and I find that..for the lady, there is no upper limit EXCEPT FOR
how the lady looks like. If the lady 40 years old, still VERY CHIO
like demi moore - then acceptable. If the lady 40 years old, look
like Ah soh, then not acceptable.
Society is superficial like dat.
