both party are wrong in a certain extend. .
u're in a r/s , should be prepared for all of this le man. .
u muz 1st noe wads her motive in looking at ur messages.
if its to spy at u(see u flirting with other gals or not), den
she's wrong la.
but if she juz happen to play around ur phone and read ur message,
den cannot blame her mah.
intention plays a big part.