oh, i think he means this way
What will a girl think of a guy when he first sees a girl whom he
has interest in and he talks to the girl immediately. Is this act
deem as desperate?
Of course not. But you have to present yourself well.
The way you start your conversation, content of conversation, and
the closin of the conversation. Then when askin for her contacts,
dont act in a way that she MUST give it to you. If she dont want,
or not ready, then be a da fang person and say it's perfectly fine,
dont show black face 
