will good friends ever become a lover?

last SG · 2004-05-27T23:19:05+00:00

Time is the best test of everything. Who knows how things will change? Unfortunately for me more than 10 years later I'm still crazy about my close friend....

toiletbowl86 SG

i once was told by my friend that when the both of you are good friends,u both will never engage in a relationship with each other.know what i mean?its like u know that someone so long a time that u have nth to explore in him/her.comment.

FireIce SG

there's a possiblity.......

some ppl go all out to search for THE ONE....but actually THE ONE is just right in front of u all the while.......

fate plays a part.......

[email protected] SG

certainly

donjng SG

I guess good friends would mean that you already past the stage of lust and sex for each other! Cool

DeadPoet SG

x2. Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Mr. Green

narz SG

i don't believe in platonic friendships. (or at least i noe it may never happen to me.)

so yes, given the right circumstances, opportunities, good friends may jolly well become a couple.

s|nNeD SG

certaintly... why not... i dun see why your good fren can't be your lover...

if things work out evetually to a stage as such... just accept it loh.

chris_pattz SG

a good friend is a fantastic lover, love started with friendship in it,

of course there's possibility.

claud SG

i agree.. it all starts from being friends in the first place, moving on stage by stage.. if both parties feel tat they can be more than friends.. den they proceed Rolling Eyes

Dj_Shadow SG

I have to agree with u... Coz i fail to c THE ONE right in front of me... Crying or Very sad

I-like-flings(m) SG

how i wish my good fren can be my gal too.. she is so chio, smart, nice, sweet.. too bad got bf already. Mr. Green

xking SG

If known for a long period say more than 5 yrs le.....
super unlikely (but anything can happen). This is coz if got feelings long time ago will have le. So long le...oredi treat each others more like siblings than lovers lo

JeweL81 SG

To me, its almost impossible to get into a relationship with my best friend.

But i believe in being the best of friends with my bf , which is soul mate. Mr. Green

Baby there's something about you that
I can hold on to
I'm going to hold on to that
Baby there's something about you that
I can hold on to
I'm going to hold on to that

Sir_Horny SG

it’s almost impossible

xavier1979 SG

I guess not.

When a girl says she only treat you as a 'good friend', it's a signal that she want no more than what is present between the two of you.

tha_schizophrenic SG

good friends may become lover, but buddies should remain as such.

piinkmiink SG

its possible.i dated my 6 year friend,but broke off after a mth or so..not sure if will ever bcome frens again..but i know its possible

Dj-Xyotai SG

i had a friend that we knew each other for long time and she was the one i wanted and she was enjoying being with me but when i ask her she said (that wasnt a good idea) i ask why? she said that in couple their sometimes fight and that she didnt want to lose me . why get in a fight with her when im happy with her :/ she didnt want to understand so i stop asking her why because i didnt want that she get tired of me asking why ( i didnt want to lose her too Razz )

marlboro SG

If all things works out then fine. If it doesnt, you're losing a lover AND a fren Sad

Wouldnt take tat risk unless 100% sure. Its always better to have a good fren who'll always be by ur side than one more ex-lover.

my 2 cents worth Mr. Green

X k SG

all it takes is a little spark(a statement, a moment of accident(hold her hand or knock into her & etc)