pls advise

conradhilton SG

hi..got a problem.

Recently got to know a cute guy. Flirt with him a lot but I think I dun love him. Jus enjoy to flirt with him, talking to him etc....

Feeling guilty for doing such thing to my bf. But one of my guyfrens said it is ok for me to flirt as my bf may be doing the same thing to me.( he said"since guys can flirt behind gf, so gals also can do it too w/o letting bf know") Not too sure is it a good advice or not...

I wan to stop hanging with that guy but I can't stop. Of course I not willing to break up my bf cos I still love him.

Pls advise.

ditzy SG

As long you know your limits, I think its pretty fine.

RaTtY81 SG

er… ur guyfrenz said MAYBE not ur bf flirting with other girls. wat if ur bf 1 day discover tat? can ur bf take it? wat if he interprets it different from u? y r u feeling guilty? its becos u noe tat u r doing something wrong but u still doing it. i would suggest tat u stop tis “flirting” stuff b4 ur bf found out n may result in heartbreaks.

parn SG

Well, one question...is the guy cuter than your bf? Just have the impression that he is. Don't know why you choose to consult guyfriends on this matter, but I hope it is not becos they can give you the reason and encouragement to go ahead and fulfill your inner desire to flirt.

Just tell you lor, go ahead and consult your gal friends on this matter....sure they are closer to you than your guy friends.

Had a friend whose relationship broke up just becos of this kind of reckless act. Not sad for him becos I'm numb.

So...all I can do is to wish you good luck in whatever decision you are going to take. Afterall, you are old enough to know what you should do and shouldn't do. Stop before it is too late to regret. Neutral

ZermanAUG3 SG

If u think its ok for u to flirt with other guys, then u shouldnt have any problem if ur bf want to flirt with other girls…

jc32258 SG

Thing is, jus because ur boyfriend might flirt doesn't mean u shud too. Two wrongs dun make a right after all, they make a 180 degree-turn back.

Hmmm, firstly by having a boyfriend, you have "pledged" urself to him? So you cannot flirt or go out with other guys? Yea, hope he does his fair share too. But in anycase, having good guyfriends like tt cute one is okay, but jus remember... You have a boyfren le

Patrik SG

Haiz..
Why everyone like that one????

xavier1979 SG

Cos we are all humans. And to err is human. Rolling Eyes

gerrykoh SG

I guess it depends on whether it is mild flirting or not. Every girl/ guy will flirt cos it means they are attractive & good to have attention from the opp. sex. But if the flirting turns serious & u are talking/ messaging the other party very regularly, then I suggest u stop. U have to consider your bf’s feelings. I’m sure u won’t like it if he is chatting up other girls. If u want to continue flirting, then don’t go steady.