why are girl nowdays so realistic?

last SG · 2004-01-27T11:00:54+00:00

well…the society is so damn realistic, everyone is so materialistic…so think abt it…maybe really its a revenge from gers out there huh? For thousands of year...

^MaRcUs^ SG

well...recently fallenfor a girl i know at a trade fair...
then ended up quite close and I really wanna make her mine...
but guess what...
she said she is very material driven and only like boys with their machine...cars...
why nowdays girl so damn realistic?
can't they look abit further?
isn't there any true love around?
yes? I mut be a condemn bachelor then.. Embarassed

ditzy SG

Well, offside she could just be kidding with you. But not all girls like that. Dun worry, ur find ur true love eventually. Trust me on that.

weeeeeee..... SG

this is not realistic. this is call materialistic.

on the contrary, i prefer girls to be realistic than fantasising.

Bochupi SG

If she's those materialistic kind then I suggest you forget about her. You'll never please her even if you own a goldmine. All she want is just someone who'll pay for everything she buys and a chaffeur to drive her around. It's all crap to me lor. Rolling Eyes

weidev SG

it is nt time for u to meet the fated one yet…

springtime SG

Fall for a girl that is more down to earth ... I'm sure there are alot of simple girls around. Maybe you are looking at the wrong kinda girls or at the wrong places ??

cooleo SG

Materalistic gals are actually a driving force for the male working force. Cos men will be motivated to earn more to buy fancy cars and houses to impress those gals. Very Happy

stoner SG

Yes ... looking at the wrong place (Singapore) ..... Yes... lots of simple ger around in other less developed regions like malaysia, thailand, vietnam, cambodia !!! Cool

Inzaghi SG

n after achieving those, the guys just play with gals..afterall there will be many gals wanting them, so they can afford to play n play.. Mr. Green

Ah Ma SG

eh eh not all lidat one ok dn condemn all…........

KittynMeow SG

its a vicious cycle.... best solution is still for gals to be realistic and earn their own keep.... be financially independent then will have a "louder" voice... kekekeke

Inzaghi SG

i agree...actually for guys, most of us are late developers, unless u got a rich daddy!!....

gals should look for the potential of the guy instead..now no car doesnt mean future wont have!!

n also gals should look at themselves too..see wat kinda std she has apart from beauty..

springtime SG

Agree ... and that's what most sg girls are trying to achieve anyway, ... there are material ones, but there are independent ones around too ..... Smile

boy in blues SG

Mr. Green yep. money can buy sex. but not love.

KittynMeow SG

no lah... not using money to buy anything but really gals should be able to earn their own keep to protect themselves....

heard and saw a few examples from my mom's generation where the woman is dependent on the husband financially and therefore has no choice but to stick to the marriage for the sake of supporting the kids even tho the husbands abuse them or are deeply indebted in gambling or drugs etc. Ended up suffering.

One of my mom's fren chose a different route: learned a skill, got a job and earned her own keep... and finally managed to get a divorce with the custody of her kids too... and freed herself from misery of being abused.

so gals our generation should learn to be independent...for our own good!

boy in blues SG

Mr. Green okie. i understand.

Inzaghi SG

aiya kitty, tat's yester yrs liao lar..now gals know how to earn $$..

y they wan a rich guy is cos she can keep wat she earns n they guy can spend on her mah...ie wat is mine is mine..wat's is his is also mine.. Mr. Green

springtime SG

only comes true when the guy himself allows it too rite ??? You can tell your girl the same thing ... just a matter of whether she allows it.... Wink

Inzaghi SG

this i have to agree with u..but i think most guys will give in unless too unreasonable...but den, like some of my galfrens said, its more shiok to spend hubby's $$ mah.. Neutral

KopiKia SG

Maybe its that girls way of rejecting you?