Many singles like to ask where they can find that special
someone in life. But the fact is...no one can tell you where. If
fate wills, you will meet that someone when you least expected.
Hence, don't be sadden about your current state. We must learn to
enjoy and treasure the state we're in NOW, regardless of whether
you've that someone special in life. 
Afterall, having someone does not guarantee you loads of joy, is it
not ?
Cheer up, Kingsley ! Believe me, you're far from being pathetic.
