Not really true, if u are marrying someone base just on
guessing.... then if it fail, you have no one to blame but
yourself. I know you cant really true know what the other party is
thinking, but consider these situation; a super ugly, poor old man
marrying a young pretty PRC FT gal after knowing her for 3 week.
there isn't much to guess is there?
Like all thing, if the married is committed in near equal term, the
lower the risk factor that love wasnt involve. Other wise treat it
like all business. The higher the return the higher the risk
factor.