I was not born gay.
When i reached puberty, i was attracted to girls...as well as
guys.
I didn't even know what "gay" meant till i was about 16-17.
However, even though i had many successful and meaningfull
relationships with girls, in the end i still decided that i
preferred men to women. Not just on a physical level.
I made the choice to be gay, instead of sitting on the fence and
calling myself bi-sexual.
Yes i chose to be the minority, to get discriminated and face all
kinds of shyt.
Why? Because it beats lying to ourselves to make other people feel
comfortable about themselves.
It might have been hell during the period that i came out, due to
the fact that there were limited resources available which set up a
situation that seemingly encouraged pitfalls....but now....now
things have changed....
I'm no longer alone in this struggle.
